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"We want our girls to get qualifications, but we also expect them to be these obedient, long suffering devis [goddesses]. So if you are educated you have to prove even more that you are still an Indian woman." It is interesting that on Asian radio stations that run marriage introduction services, what most men ask for are (fair-skinned) girls who are educated "but not too much" so they are still "homely".But as Ms Raleigh argues, the Asian family is also a source of security and support As, in the end, they were for Asha. With the disciplinary sanctions available nowadays, even the strongest teachers are finding it difficult to keep order.Get out before you waste any more of your life. I trained as a music teacher and spent many years unhappily "toughing it out" in order to earn extra cash for the family.

Yet I knew, as I sat on the Underground train going on almost my first visit to my teaching practice, that I wasn't able to keep control of the children And this never changes. However much you try to improve, however much older and more experienced you become, however many times you change schools and start again, the same weakness remains, making it impossible to enjoy what should be a satisfying and fulfilling occupation. It is far too early to give up.TJ Vardon, headmasterCoventryFollow your instincts, cut the courseFollow your instincts and drop the teaching course immediately. Her experience of remedial teaching, which is what prompted her to go into education in the first place, could well provide her with a springboard for future work.Quite often things come together in the final year of a college course. Given the variety of schools, Moira should be guided into the type that is right for her. In other words, I hope, perhaps, that by my answer I can transmit the enthusiasm that she already has transmitted and will, if she gets her new qualification, continue to transmit to her students.The right school can be a springboardMoira should certainly continue with her course. She has been sufficiently motivated at the age of 35 to go to college for three years and there are many different opportunities in education today.It is important for Moira's college tutor to assess the quality of supervision and help she has received in the schools where she has done teaching practice.